A Southern-Style Thanksgiving Feast (Yes, We Use Real Gravy)

Southern Thanksgiving dinner plate with sliced roasted turkey, mashed potatoes topped with rich giblet gravy, green beans, cranberry sauce, and cornbread dressing on a rustic table setting.

Hey y’all — Let’s Talk Thanksgiving

Thanksgiving in the South isn’t just a meal — it’s a sacred event. From deviled eggs to cobbler, everything on the table should taste like it was passed down, perfected, and prayed over. That means real butter, real gravy, and absolutely no shortcuts (except for that one cousin who brings store-bought pie and lies about it — bless her heart).

Whether you're hosting the whole family, planning a cozy Friendsgiving, or just love doing it up for yourself (as you should!), this Southern-style Thanksgiving menu has everything you need. Think: starters, sides, mains, desserts, and a few hosting tips that’ll make you look like you’ve done this a time or two — even if you haven’t.

Starters

Deviled Eggs (Grandma’s Way)

Creamy, tangy, and dusted with a little paprika — these deviled eggs are always the first to disappear. A little pickle relish gives them that perfect Southern twist.

👉 Get the recipe here


Pimento Cheese & Crackers

Sharp cheddar, diced pimentos, and a spoonful of mayo come together in a spread that tastes like childhood and potlucks. Always served cold, always on a Ritz.

👉 Try this easy spread


Cranberry Bourbon Smash

Sweet, tart, and just boozy enough to keep the holiday tension light. This cranberry cocktail gets its kick from fresh citrus and good bourbon. Sip slowly... or don’t.

👉 Make the cocktail


Main Dishes

Herb Butter Roasted Turkey

Dry-brined for flavor, butter-basted for beauty. This turkey roasts up golden, juicy, and packed with herby goodness. It’s the turkey that gets folks talkin’ — in a good way.

👉 Full turkey recipe


Cornbread Dressing with Sage & Sausage

No stuffing here — it’s cornbread dressing or nothing. Made with day-old cornbread, fresh herbs, sautéed onion and celery, and spicy sausage. It’s moist, savory, and the backbone of a Southern Thanksgiving.

👉 Get the dressing recipe


Giblet Gravy

Yes, we use the gizzards. Yes, it’s worth it. This gravy is rich, silky, and full of deep flavor. Pour it on everything but the dessert.

👉 Real-deal giblet gravy instructions


Sides That Steal the Show

Sweet Potato Casserole (Pecan Topping Only)

No marshmallows allowed — this isn’t a kid’s birthday party. We’re topping creamy mashed sweet potatoes with a buttery pecan crumble. Sweet, crunchy, and completely grown-up.

👉 Try the casserole


Buttery Southern Mashed Potatoes

No gravy needed — these mashed potatoes hold their own. Creamy, fluffy, and loaded with real butter, they’re the quiet hero of the Thanksgiving plate. Simple, soulful, and absolutely essential.

👉 Try the mashed potatoes


Southern Baked Mac & Cheese

Sharp cheddar, creamy base, and a golden baked top. Southern mac and cheese should be sliceable, not spoonable — and don’t forget the crispy edges.

👉 Get the recipe here

Collard Greens with Smoked Turkey

Greens simmered low and slow with garlic, onions, and smoked turkey. Tangy, savory, and just a little spicy — these greens are soul food, period.

👉 Get the recipe here

Green Bean Casserole (From Scratch)

Fresh green beans, sautéed mushrooms, and a homemade cream sauce topped with crispy shallots. You’ll never open another can again.

👉 Make it from scratch

Homemade Cranberry Sauce

Orange zest, fresh cranberries, and a splash of Grand Marnier turn this into the cranberry sauce people actually eat. Tart, sweet, and citrusy.

👉 Get the sauce recipe

Southern-Style Desserts

Pecan Pie with Bourbon & Brown Butter

This is not your grandma’s pecan pie — unless your grandma was kinda wild. The bourbon brings warmth, the brown butter brings depth, and the filling is gooey perfection.

👉 Try the pecan pie

Pumpkin Pie (Classic, but Elevated)

Creamy, spiced just right, and made with heavy cream for that smooth texture. Serve chilled with whipped cream — because some things are sacred.

👉 Bake this pie

Apple Cobbler with Buttermilk Biscuit Topping

Warm, cinnamon-sugar apples baked under golden, fluffy biscuits. Top with vanilla ice cream and watch your guests lose their minds.

👉 Make the cobbler


Can’t-Do-Withouts

Flaky Butter Pie Crust

No store-bought crusts in this kitchen — just cold butter, loving hands, and a pie dough that flakes like it means it. You’ll taste the difference in every bite.

👉 Try the crust


Buttermilk Biscuits

Tall, tender, and full of buttery layers — these buttermilk biscuits are born to be slathered, stacked, and served with everything on the table.

👉 Try the biscuits


Hosting Tips with Southern Charm

You’ve got the food — now make it feel special with these little touches.

Set the Table the Night Before

Trust me, you’ll thank yourself when you’re elbow-deep in gravy the next morning.

Decor That Doesn’t Try Too Hard

Magnolia leaves, eucalyptus, mini pumpkins, linen napkins, and candles in mason jars. Chic, Southern, and budget-friendly.

The Music Matters

Otis Redding, a little Dolly, and a soft jazz playlist set the mood better than any store-bought centerpiece.

Start a Gratitude Jar

Place little cards at each setting for guests to write what they’re thankful for. Read them after dessert, or save them for next year.

Final Thoughts Suga

Thanksgiving in the South is about food, family, and feelin’ full — of gratitude and good gravy. Whether you’re following every recipe to a T or adding your own spin, remember this:

If it tastes like you put your foot in it — you did it right.

With butter on my hands and joy in my heart,
Southern Charm Style 🍂

Lilly-

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